Visiting family

So, I'm sitting in my parent's living room enjoying the family. We had an early Christmas celebration this year due to some of our work schedules. Having a couple of people in the EMS/nursing field in the family makes scheduling holidays difficult. Also having the family scattered literally across the country makes getting together difficult. However, despite all this, we managed to get everybody together for an early Christmas celebration! So, no deep post today, I'm simply enjoying my family and will be going out to build a snowman shortly.
I do have a post in the works about EMS 2.0 and another one about EMS vs Nursing education. Keep checking and they'll be up eventually!

Beaten by technology

OK, so technology has totally gotten the best of me at the moment. I wanted to submit my post below (AIDS part 1) to Emergiblog for Change of Shift. I've actually tried for the last three editions.... But, somehow, when I click on the "contact me" button on her website, I can't get through. I think its because I use gmail and I don't have my Windows email outlook set up properly. I used to be able to scroll over the link, get her addy and send it her way....but, somehow I can't do that anymore.

I also wanted to comment on AD's post about his blogroll, and request being added there. But, my computer won't let me do it. I don't know if he has comment moderation on and hence has about 10 posts to sort through, or if its my computer.

So, I am attempting to communicate with the greater world and maybe get some readers. But, attempts at mastering technology are defeating me at the moment. Any hints, suggestions, tips are much appreciated!

Freedom to be New

I am still a new medic. I got my license in January 2009, and was cleared to run by myself sometime in the April region. I then moved multiple times, and have not been practicing since September. I have been an EMT for almost 6 years now
However, many in EMS keep mistaking me for "experienced". I know I have some nursing experience under my belt, including my years as an ER/Trauma nurse in a large level 1 trauma center/inner city ER.
But here's my problem with this: I am NOT an experienced Medic. Things that make me a good ER nurse do not make me a good Medic. I have always been of the opinion that in-hospital and out-of-hospital care are two separate things. Similar, yes; even over-lapping in their fields: but 2 different worlds. It takes a different mind-set, different set of skills for me to operate in the field. This mindset helped me do well in Medic school, by setting aside my experience as a nurse and focusing only on what I had done as an EMT/and what I was learning.
So, here's my problem: people in EMS keep calling me "experienced", giving me preference on calls, even sending me out by myself into difficult situations "cause you can handle it".
I have nursing experience, I'm not the most experienced, but I do have some experience and feel fairly confident in my skill set. But I'm not an experienced medic. I haven't yet done a field tube (wasn't required in my program, I've done tubes in the OR, but not in the field). I haven't even run a wreck requiring extrication (once again, been in EMS for 6 years, and all my patients have self-extricated! Weird I know). I have also never run a code in the field (again, been in EMS for 6 years and my white cloud has prevented me being there for one!). I have run many, many codes in the hospital. I have also run ALS mega-codes until I could do them in my dreams (literally). But I have never run the actual chaos of a code in the field.
I would love to have the experience of watching an experienced medic run a code in the field. I would love the opportunity to drop a tube with an experienced medic peering over my shoulder to help me. But I'm not being given these opportunities. I'm sent out by myself, expected to function at a high level.
I'm getting ready to start at a new squad, and I'm already facing this conundrum. Already they're talking about a shortened preceptorship "since you know what you're doing". I don't want it shortened, I want help. I guess I want the pressure off, I want to be able to be "the new guy on the block". I want the freedom to mess up, to be told that I'll do better as time goes on. I want the freedom to have someone show up to back me up (volunteer system) since I'm still new.
Any thoughts? Hints? My nursing experience does help me a little (cyanosis is still cyanosis, in-hospital or out-of-hospital), but not much. I'm still a new medic and want to be considered that way.

AIDS part two

He was very well dressed, down to the neat pressed suit coat and silk tie. He carried an expensive tooled briefcase and a Blackberry prominent on his hip. He checked in at the front desk, and sat in the waiting room. When I first saw him, he was a ripple of fashion in a world of stained tee shirts, flip flops, and worn stained jeans. He sat and texted and emailed until he was called. He looked the picture of a well put together executive.
I took him back to triage, and quite another story emerged. He had just been to the AIDS clinic to get his next round of cocktail meds. “I can’t accept the insurance at my new job, because then they’ll know about the diagnosis, they aren’t supposed to….but….they just fired another employee who signed up for the insurance and told them he had the dreaded disease.” He said he went to the free AIDS clinic in the city as “the only way I can hope to stay alive for long”. They had taken his blood that day, and called and sent him to us with a dangerously low blood count. He cried big, heart-wrenching tears- “I guess this might just be the end…I always wanted to be old, but I’m not going to get the chance”.
His story was more tragic than most. In his teenage years, he had been struck by a drunk driver one night while driving home from a business conference. During the ensuing days and weeks in the ICU he had received many, many units of blood. One of those units wasn’t properly screened, and he had contracted HIV. He was beating the odds so far, had made it to middle age without too many complications. He looked fairly healthy, but then he took off his jacket and rolled up his sleeve for the BP; and another story came out. He had the tell-tale end stage purple lumps, he was almost nothing underneath that coat, and a strong wind could carry him to China if he wasn’t careful. His mouth was all sores inside, the tongue eroding, the gums bleeding. He told the story of sleepless nights, incessant coughing, and massive diarrhea.
Despite all this, he had remained optimistic. He had managed to not only keep his job, but hide his diagnosis. He said his coworkers wondered sometimes, wondered why he never dated, wondered why he left at lunch each day. He said he had never dated “cause I just couldn’t take the chance of giving this horrid disease to someone I loved, I just couldn’t do it”. He left at lunch each day to go swallow a massive amount of meds in private, and try to eat something nutritious, even if it didn’t look good.
He was at the top of his company, when I saw his name I recognized him as a prominent business man in the city. He lived in one of the nice houses, in a nice neighborhood. He said he had just “had to move, cause my old neighborhood learned about me, and nobody would talk to me anymore”. He loved kids, and said “so far, I’m allowed to play with the neighborhood kids, and even eat with people again”. He wasn’t sure it would last, but stated he was enjoying what he could while it lasted.
I took him straight back to a room, with his WBC count of almost nothing he didn’t need to be exposed to the contagion rolling around the waiting room. I went back later to check on him.
I found him, almost nothing under the blanket, crying on the phone. I left him alone for privacy, and came back a few minutes later. He said that the doctor was admitting him for intensive treatment of his massive pneumonia, “but it doesn’t look good”. He called his work and told them some excuse so he wouldn’t have to show up the next day.
2 days later, I was perusing the obituaries when I was shocked to recognize his picture. The picture was taken before the disease had gained so much ground, and he was a different person. The obituary only said that he died of pneumonia, no word of the true cause. I heard he had a large funeral, with most of the people in attendance ignorant of the courageous battle he had fought, totally alone, for over 25 years. The disease had won again, had won in secrecy and stigma.

MIA

Folks, I have been rather behind in posting recently. (just a newsflash, in case you hadn't noticed!). In between moving long-distance, settling in, starting a new job, learning a new role, getting a kitten, fulfilling all the license requirements for the new state, etc, etc, etc...I just haven't had much time for posting!
I will try to do better in the future, although I can't promise much. A post a week would be wonderful, but we'll have to see. I can say there are some posts in the works about professionalism, EMS versus Nursing, etc. If I still have any readers, feel free to comment on anything I post!

The Many Faces of AIDS, part 1

Notice: this series of posts will highlight the personal side of one of our country's major health problems. Please note that these are in NO way portraying real people, but are a combination of my experiences. If you think you recognize someone, you are wrong, these are not real stories.

She was wasted, emaciated, almost nothing on the stretcher. Friends, family members all piled at the bedside, all concerned about her. They had pictures from a month, a year, several years ago. All these portrayed quite a different picture: laughing, dancing, normal weight, friends and family all around.
Today, she was crying, covered in sores, odd lumps present here and there. She said that her family had brought her in "because they are all worried about me". History was hard, if not impossible to obtain with all of them around. The family painted a picture of declining appetite, declining weight, declining energy, "she just seems sick all the time".
I asked for a little privacy so I could get a urine sample. The family willingly filed out to the waiting room while making it clear that they would be back, they weren't abandoning her. Once gone, she dissolved into tears.
In bits and pieces the story came out, she was born in poverty in the inner city. While attempting to earn a college education she had run out of money. Her minimum wage job wasn't paying enough to allow her to finish school. There just weren't enough hours in the day for her to work enough to pay for school. So, she turned to what she knew would make her a little more money. She stated it started out slowly, but quickly it trapped her. Selling her body became more and more easy, and made more money. She finally made enough money to finish those last 2 years of school. She graduated top of her class, with a degree that ensured she would never have to stoop that low again.
She left that city, went to another one, got a good, well-paying job. She never turned to the streets again, thought she was done with that shameful period in her life. But, the deed had been done, and there was no avoiding the consequences. After a time, she moved back to her hometown and continued to work at her new profession. She had money, friends, influence, and even a new boyfriend.
But then, the weight loss started, the frequent infections. She knew that her old life was coming back to bite her, but didn't know how to tell her family and friends. She was scared of what they would think of her stooping so low for those 2 years. So, she avoided the issue. She told them she was getting back into shape, that the cross-country move was to blame for her frequently being sick, anything to get the attention off of her increasing sickness.
Now, she was lying on our gurney, sick, scared, and broken hearted. She told me she knew it was AIDS, she said "I just know I caught it in those 2 years, but I don't know how to tell them". I stayed with her until the sobs quieted, and tried to offer reassurance. But deep down, there wasn't much reassurance to offer. The signs were all too obvious, and the stigma all too deep.
We ran a few blood tests to confirm what was already obvious. We arranged for her to be admitted to the hospital for the first round of medications. We helped her break the news to her family, who solemnly shook their heads and filed out of her room. We answered questions, and tried to reconcile them. Hoping, hoping that she would have someone left to support her through the ugly days ahead.
I sent her upstairs, and sent her family after her. I sent the chaplain up after them, hoping to break the cycle of social stigma. I didn't see her again for awhile.
4 weeks later, a familiar name flashes across my screen. I quickly ask to have her again, to follow up on what I had started. This time, the scene was so different. She was even sicker, but alone in the room. A small heap under the bedclothes was all that was left. She sobbed again as she told the story. The tests were indeed positive, and confirmed her worst fears. Her family and all her friends had immediately abandoned her, even her roommate had moved out while she was at work one day. She had lost her job due to being unable to work from the illness. Her boyfriend had left town and wouldn't return her calls. She was facing the horrible truth, all alone.
We saw her fairly frequently for the next few months as we tried to curb the spread of her illness, stop the insidious slide toward the grave. She was always alone, scared, trying to find her footing alone in the world.
About 8 months after that first day, we got an EMS call. "Unknown female, unresponsive, initially pulseless, revived after one round of CPR and a defibrillation. Now unresponsive, pulse of 100, BP 60/40, ET tube in place, 2 min ETA, blood glucose 200". For some reason, my mind flashed to her as soon as I read the report. As I readied the room and summoned the other personnel needed, I mentally reviewed her case. Sure enough, when the Paramedics rolled in, it was her. She was down to less than 70 lbs, and had obviously not been able to care for herself in sometime. EMS reported a very dirty house, and indications she had not moved from bed for some days. Nobody knew who called 911, but she was alone when EMS arrived.
We tried our best, but her fate was sealed long before she arrived. She died soon after arriving despite our best attempts. She didn't die alone, but she died without any family or friends by her bedside. The horrible grip of the viscous disease finally won.
We attempted to contact family and friends, but no one would come, no one was willing to be associated with her. We finally sent her body to the morgue, alone. The disease had won again, and social stigma had taken another victim.

LOA Reasons

Hi to my few readers :). I just wanted to drop a quick post to explain my lengthy absence. I have been very busy, I am preparing to move clear across the country. I have moved twice since May to short-term rentals in anticipation of this job opening up. Now, I'm preparing for a 3000 + mile move, and a major job change. So, in a nutshell, I've been simply to busy to post for awhile :). I haven't gone anywhere, and will be back!